I never said we argued, I said it went downhill. There is a difference.
Why would I put a sign up that says knock WHEN THERE IS A LOCK. If the door had no lock then yes I would do that… With that logic I may as well give a tour of how to flush the toilet, turn the faucet on, turn the stove on, close refrigerator door, turn a ceiling fan on, turn a ceiling fan off, fold the covers down, wipe your feet----the obvious things in life we all should know how to do. No never thought he was a psychopath, just a young person with a huge ego and a long road to hoe.
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Didn’t argue, he was checking out the next day, even after I told him there was a lock, he insisted there was no lock!!! (his exclamation marks) He had been there a week and had not figured it out so no I don’t think that would have happened.
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No I think it really is rocket science.
My 1938 house has similar locks, but my knobs are metal, sorta art deco they are cool. The guest who did not lock the door is a moron if you cannot figure out how to lock that, or not have the sense to ask.
RR
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- Sorry to hear about this
- Stuff like this is why we have a 21 year min guest age.
- He is poorly raised - a closed bathroom door means “Knock before entering”.
- He is VERY poorly raised for not APOLOGIZING for the confusion and potential embarassment - and asking how the lock operates.
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@BlaQMarbleHost Here is an example of getting a bad review because you host multiple rooms in the same house without being an onsite host.
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…and here is an example of yet another host presuming to know everything.
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I’m starting to see why that conversation went down hill. 
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If i was rent a share house with a share bathroom I would carry a door wedge in my bag to use in bathroom / bedroom situations. Your guest is a rude idiot, but we have not heard from the invaded on girl friend.
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I’m a chemical engineer, my husband is one, and my son is currently studying to be one. (And I am 100% positive that your young man is not my son - he has much better manners than your guest.)
“Smart” has nothing to do with common sense or manners. Most engineers don’t have common sense. And a-holes are present in every profession and every level of intelligence.
I’m not excusing his behavior at all, but I presume you are a fair amount older than the guest. Being a host requires that you use all your maturity and grace to defuse situations with your guests. It’s part of being in the hospitality business.
Better luck next time, and perhaps you can point out the lock to future guests if/when you give them the orientation tour.
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I’m just calling attention from another thread where multiple host were pointing out to BlaQMarbleHost how guest interaction results in bad reviews for the host especially when the host is not on-site.
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Thank you for your insight. There is a gap between intelligence and common sense and he fell into this gap. My husband is in the gap as well. I wasn’t speaking of his engineer status to be a smart ass but in fact to relay how many times he mentioned it in text to me. I will strategically insert the bathroom into the tour!!!
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May be I am wrong …but…I sense a conflict. Which …could be easily avoided. Most conflicts are not for the reason that something is malfunctioning…mostly it’s because of human interaction.
Though I can argue till blue in face if I believe in something strongly and those who know me well can confirm hehehehe. But with guests I try to agree as much as possible. Initially I ALWAYS agree. I stop agreeing when It keeps going on for couple of days and Its completely unreasonable. Once in a while i get guests like this…very very rarely. Recently i hosted a lady who complained every half hour for 48 hours. For first 36 hours I agreed, then I just asked her to leave.
The door issue wouldn’t escalate If you just agreed and may be apologize.
Put a sign on a door. Implying that a guest is technologically challenged or can’t figure out " simple" things is never a good idea. I am actually one of those…I can’t figure out often how to open yogurt in foreign countries or open and lock doors.
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Maybe it’s a regional/cultural thing but I would never open a door to a bathroom (even in my own home and especially not in a shared space) without first knocking. It’s kind of like innocent-until-proven-guilty for me. There is someone in the bathroom in a comprising position (naked or on the pot) until it is verified otherwise (by knocking) 
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So basically @Brian_R170, my presence at said rental will be more for conflict resolution than anything else?
I have stayed in multi room listings a few times. In some cases, the host didn’t stay on the property, the rules were clearly stated and involved respect for other guests. I didn’t want my reputation as an airbnb user tainted so I always respected my interaction with other guests and kept them minimal. I don’t know that u’re automatically on the road to a bad review if you host multiple rooms in ur airbnb without being on site. But U do have a point to be honest.
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I’m just saying the mere presence of authority makes people less likely to behave badly and gives you the chance to prevent escalations.
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He’s from Canada. We understand how locks work.
(Not to mention the kid is an Engineer!)
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Thank you for taking the time to share that response with me, it sounds perfect. I hope to one day have that grace, dignity and ability relay understanding and compassion in those situations.
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I’m with you about opening a bathroom door. I would always knock first.
But there’s a point that I don’t think anyone has raised. Our guests often seem uncertain that their bathroom is theirs alone. (Each of our guest rooms has its own bath.) So it seems possible that the reverse could be true—that a guest could forget or not absorb the fact that he is sharing the bath.
Locking the door is really the only sensible solution.
And I’ve been in public restrooms that have just this kind of lock on the stall door. They don’t have crystal doorknobs, but they do have this lock.
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