Hello everyone
Long-time listener, first-time caller here. I hope you wise people can give me some insight into a recent odd stay, and maybe offer me some advice on how best to proceed. I hope you’ll bear with me during this rather long tale.
A while ago I accepted an instant booking from a fellow I’m going to call ‘Amis’ (name changed). Here is our initial exchange verbatim (we’ll, except for names and country of origin):
Amis: Hi Diana good day, I’ll be arriving at London Heathrow airport at 20th July 6am and I would like to request an early check-in is that possible for you to rearrange check-in time for us?
Me: Hi Amis
Thanks for booking with me, and I look forward to meeting you in a few weeks! I’m happy to say that as you’re arriving on a Saturday, when I won’t be at work, I can let you check in as soon as you arrive. I’ll expect you any time from 8 am. I noticed you refer to ‘us’ - are there in fact two of you? You’ve only booked for one person. It makes no difference to the price, but I’d like to know how many towels to leave out!
I’m sure you’ve read my listing thoroughly, but if you have any questions, do please ask. I’ll be in touch again closer to your arrival date with my exact address and directions in any case. Until then,
All best wishes
Diana
Amis: Hi Diana, ya there will be 2 of us. Sorry if that’s misunderstanding.
I know many of you will be rolling your eyes at my easy acquiescence to the early check in request, but as it happens I had a longstanding arrangement that day and an early, get-it-over-with check in suited me down to the ground. I also - unusually for me - failed to get the name of the plus one.
Various logistical exchanges ensued, during which I gave out copious advice on getting from Heathrow to my place and confirmed the arrival time of 8 am. I also got a faintly enraging (because it woke me up!) 3.30 am message on the morning of arrival saying ‘see you soon’.
Well, you can imagine my surprise when my doorbell went at 6.30 am - SIX! THIRTY!! AM!!! - and I was confronted by someone called ‘Brigstocke’, who told me that Amis’s visa had been denied so it was just him, and he’d just taken the overnight bus from Cardiff (Cardiff!), and could he come in? I was discombobulated to put it mildly. I asked him why Amis had not let me know about the failed visa, particularly given that I’d been in contact with him regularly and only a few hours previously. He looked abashed but slightly hunted, and apologised. I expressed my dismay at the situation, and to give him his due I think he ‘got’ why a single woman (or let’s face it, anyone hosting in their own home!) might look askance at some Rando turning up on their doorstep in the small hours and expecting the hail fellow well met treatment. He said that he was studying in Cardiff, but was going home (to Southeast Asian country) for the holidays, and his mate Amis had been going to come over for a short holiday and to travel back with him. Anyway - I gave him my best ‘more in sorrow than in anger’ lecture, showed him around, went back to bed where I had some epic anxiety dreams, got up again and left him to it while I went about my day.
I have to say that he was a delightful, unobtrusive and easy guest. I hardly saw him, but when I did, he was polite and friendly. He stayed with me for three nights, and nothing went ‘wrong’ after the strange and irritating start.
‘He’ has now left me a review. As I said way back when, the booking was made by ‘Amis’, and all the correspondence up to the guest’s arrival was between Amis and me. NOW, suddenly, the correspondence on the Airbnb page refers to ‘Brigstocke’, and it is Brigstocke I am being asked to review. However, all the emails and text alerts I received prior to the guest’s stay still refer to ‘Amis’, so I know I’m not dreaming. I have it there in black and white: it appears that guests are able to change names after (or during?) their stay.
How can this be right? Am I over-reacting? Has this ever happened to you?
I strongly feel that these kind of shenanigans should not be allowed. And how am I going to review him? What would you do?