We had a guest here for one night, a guy named John. He’s local, maybe 30 years old. When I messaged to ask the purpose of the stay, he said he booked to have a private date with a girl he went to school with 10 years earlier. Oddly enough, he didn’t know his girlfriend’s last name when I asked for it. About 20 minutes later he messaged me back with her name. (John told me after arriving that he lived with three guys, so privacy for a girlfriend night makes sense.)
His night was a disaster, but really just for him. His girlfriend backed out after he had checked in, so we never saw her. He went out to get money from an ATM, only to find that his prepaid card wouldn’t work as it was probably empty. He left to go give someone a ride at about 9 p.m. We expected him back in an hour or two. Our digital lock showed him coming back at 2:30 a.m. After that, he was outside every hour to smoke.
None of that is bad, yet we know he had a miserable time. He told me this morning when I got up at 7:30 that he hadn’t slept at all, because his car was impounded during the night since he didn’t have a license. I don’t know where or how that happened. He asked me to call him an affordable cab that would take cash (no functional credit card—and I don’t know how much cash he had).
Sadly, I was in a hurry and couldn’t spend time searching. We’ve never before had a guest who needed a cab. Just Uber, and John said they take only plastic.
By the time I was ready to leave, he had found a cab that promised to arrive. They did eventually arrive, I assume, because our front porch camera showed him leaving about 30 minutes after I did.
So—he didn’t break any rules. He was a nice enough guy. But I know he had a dreadful experience. And I know he has financial problems (he told me a bit about that). Would we want him back? Would other hosts want him as a guest?
We have never had trouble with local guests. And we didn’t have trouble with John. He was just different from our other guests. I suspect that our place might have been a real stretch for him financially.
I guess I should recommend him, right? I’m not sure why I feel so ambivalent about him as a guest.