Thank you for posting this. I am a newbie to this forum (and am not debating anything) but want to relate my experience (of course!) as a newbie…
IMO there are too many gd holier-than-thou ’keyboard warriors’ trolling the cyberworld these days, and too much back and forth bickering online in general, not just here. That is just a sad fact. It should be noted as well, that it is quite easy to completely misconstrue a person’s intent with cyber talk. I’ve been called names on here and I have also lost my temper myself on here (in my defense-over an issue that was serious and life-altering to myself and my family’s livelihood). Afterward I received a message from another member asking me not to leave the forum, because they appreciated my posts and had seen many previous newbies scared off by similar interactions. But for me, that would be a childish reaction to something I had complete control over-my own actions and interpretations of others’ actions. Plus, why would I leave an awesome site that has helped me tremendously with hosting?
The fact is, the whole of the online universe (I include myself here), could do with a bit of a smackdown. We all could stand to be more accepting of opinions when it comes to posting online comments. I am a direct and no-nonsense type of person. There is never malice in my words. Never. But I have been called names by people whom I have obviously rubbed the wrong way…. usually when I’ve called someone to the table for posting bullsh*t—js! My way of speaking, (or someone else’s), may be a form of communication to which another is simply not aculturated.
We’re all adults here and I feel this forum is RAD-in every way, shape and form! I have been hosting vacation rentals for 10+ years, but before finding this forum, I had never even known about the Chrome App, many of the ins and outs of Air and its policies or felt such a level of understanding when I’ve felt burned out or stressed as a host…and that is thanks to Konacoconutz, K9Karmacasa, Sandytoes, Cabinhost, Catskillsgrl, Helsi, KenH, Guthead’s polls and funnies…and all the other host commenters, (whom I have no idea if they are moderators or not, but are clearly seasoned hosts), taking their time to offer their knowledge and support to strangers, like family.
When I see someone being accused of malintent, when that is not how I read it, or nothing could be further from the truth, I find that much more offensive than a helpful person offering advice…in their own way of speaking. The fact is, if I choose to flip out over something someone else says, then that’s on me. Squarely. If you are someone who is [routinely] getting your panties in a bunch over something somebody typed on here (or anywhere), to the point where you feel the need to resort to name calling/behavior calling, ….then be honest with yourself-maybe the problem is with you. Human to human, I will care about you anyway, but saying that some is “rude” or “aggressive” or “argumentative” or any other similar shite I’ve read here and elsewhere, when you have no flipping idea of that person’s mind or intent, then frankly, you need to check yourself. Telling someone they’re rude…is rude. Lol
Being a moderator is probably not an easy job. I appreciate you moderators, experienced hosts, and everyone else posting on here. My hosting world got much better as a result. Thank you very much, with sincere gratitude.