After trying to communicate with this guest for 2 days to have him read my house manual to give him driving, parking and access info, i get a request from him to ‘just tell him my address’ and he is on his way. I replied this information is on his confirmation email along with the house rules and info, and after telling me that he lost all his emails, then tells me he found them.
I have a catchphrase in my house manual that i ask the guest to text me so that i know they have read it, and my house rules require reading the manual (i have had bad experiences with guests not reading where to park, for instance, and winding up having their cars towed, etc). This guest was very arrogant and apparently did not have any interest in doing any of this. I got another text saying to just give my address.
In the afternoon i got a text saying he is checking in to a hotel rather than with me because it is so difficult. I am of course ok with that but then his last email says "It is 3. I still do not know where I am sleeping. I have no more time to waste on this. I have checked into a hotel. You will not like my review of your as a “host.”
Obviously he is not staying and this is a threat. My question here is, what do i do now? Call air and tell them the story, and tell them he is not here? I assume i will get that email asking for a review, as will he. hOw can I make sure that no ‘review’ happens since no stay occurred?
What is the best procedure?