When hosts respond publicly to private feedback

I agree that responding to reviews often looks like the host is trying too hard! Or is a maniac!

However what would you do if a guest leaves a false or vindictive review. I think in that case it can be helpful to set the record straight. when I see a negative review and the host calmly and non-emotionally states the facts, that usually reassures me about the property.

Maybe also some people just don’t care that much!

Probably they don’t realize it though. I once responded publicly too quickly to a review that lied about one of my amenities, it made me look like an idiot and you can never erase it, it’ll be there forever.

What? Responding to the reviews look bad?

I respond to every review so far with something like “Thanks for the visit!” Or “glad you had a good trip, thanks for the kind words” of the review was really complimentary.

Now I feel like I’m too eager :scream:

What would I do? It’s in the past. Forget it. A couple of weeks and it will be relegated to the second page anyway. One poor review amongst good ones won’t matter to any reasonable guest. (And I think we all prefer reasonable guests!) Guests are generally bright enough to figure things out.

For example, I regularly have:

You need a car when you stay here as it’s too far to walk to the beach

Followed directly by another review that says:

This is a great place to stay if you don’t have a car as it’s an easy walk to the beach

I would say I have that little sequence every month or so. They can’t both be right but guests can figure it out.

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Many great hosts do this. It looks bad if they are defensive or if it isn’t typical it looks odd. And specifically as the title of the thread indicates, it looks bad if the guest leaves a good review but mentions something in the private feedback like “there were ants in the kitchen the last day.” Then the host says in response “of course there are ants in the jungle and if you wouldn’t leave the window open and the sweets on the counter there would be no ants.”

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I only respond to bad reviews if they violate the House Rules… ie: The host ruined our stay by making us leave the home when we had guests over. my response: The guest’s reservation was cancelled due to the fact the guest violated our House Rules by hosting a party in the home which is not allowed.

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Came across this review tonight and thought I’d revive this thread. This host also has 12-18 security cameras on the property, according to some of the other reviews!

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Idiot. But at least no full on insults like some I’ve read. However, I wouldn’t stay with her. No, I don’t want to be called as she watches my every move on camera. And 4.66 is too low a rating for me. And third, I don’t want any “God Bless You” crap from such an obviously angry and paranoid person.

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I don’t understand why hosts give such rude responses, it would discourage me from staying there too.

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For many hosts it’s about them, not the guests. This host doesn’t even know how responses work. Like does she even read her own listing? Can she not see how dumb it looks to respond to private feedback. I don’t want to take my chances staying with someone that clueless after 40+ stays. I understand you can make that mistake once, but time and again?

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