i know, it deserves a private forum:). Sigh…sigh…sigh
The dude also while i was away in NY brought home a woman. And he was sneaking her into the house so my husband did not even see her even once, because she was coming very late at night and leaving very early before 6 am. My guests from downstairs heard them doing it ALL night (at his age, they said,hehe).
When i came back, they were shy to tell me, but then they did and they told me she was dressed very provocatively.
Miami girls hardly have any clothes on, so its not a fact that she is a hooker. but a possibilty. I was furious when i heard it. I wrote to him couple of messages saying that its not acceptable and so on, and i would like him to find something more suitable for his single man life. I told him he was heard all over the house. What a dummy!
Then when my husband asked him about the girl, he said he knows her for 5 years. And he wont bring her anymore.
But now he is avoiding me, i think he is afraid of me by now. I am on his case, but what am i supposed to do? To just let it all go and pretend everything is allright? Really, the man has not much brain activity. WHo does things like that at his age (late 40s, early 50s) sneaking a girl into his room and then make all kind of sex noises, hoping we wont hear him??.
I have 3 more weeks with him. But now since he is afraid of me, he sneaks himself into the house, and i dont see him at all. Just hear this horrible nose blows every morning. Like he is permanently sick.
He is also a drinker. The amount of booze he goes through a week is horrendorous. I can judge by bottles in recycling bin, (at least he recycles!!)