I guess they also would have âmales onlyâ dorms and not only âfemales onlyâ dorms. I suppose the reason would be that some âpeopleâ wouldnât like to sleep close to someone of the other sex. Why âpeopleâ would feel like that is to be discussed. That discussion should start anytime soon in this topic
.
Your idea boils downs to this thought: âSome females feel uncomfortable being alone in one room together with men who are sexually attracted to them.â I just extended that thought to males and LGBT+.
Because continuing your logic:
- Maybe females (S or LGBT+) should also worry about sharing a space with lesbian or bisexual women, or straight.
- Maybe males (S or LGBT+) should also worry about sharing a space with gay or bisexual men, or straight.
- Maybe people who are at risk of dying should also worry about sharing a space with necroâŚ
Never mind.
You get my point, there is lots to feel and lots to worry about. If we have to segregate each and everyone in his own little box, there will be lots of boxes.
Of course since these feelings exist, hostels will cater to them. Wether this helps to empower anyone is another matter of course.
I understand
your point of view. But why wouldnât this apply to males or LGBT+?
So continuing my logic, as explained above, I asked you two questions that you didnât answer:
I asked this question because apparently some women prefer to travel with MisterBnB for security reasons. And we (gay couple) love
having single women over.
I asked this question because of my own experience I know that men can also get into unpleasant situations when traveling.
Now continuing with your and my logic 




, maybe you should design an app where hosts and guests would fully disclose their sexual preferences
, so a âsafeâ
match can be made. However, be sure to test
whatever sexual preference they declare, to prevent any false declarations.
And now seriously: I think within the home sharing world AirbnB, with itâs scale, experience and review system, is the best option in maximizing the probability of a safe stay for everyone.
I wish you lots of success with your venture, and I hope you will also think about securing safety, not only for females (S / LGBT+), but also for males (S /LGBT+) and other living creatures.
@Jan_J We know
. Some gays will explicitly feel uncomfortable using this app for the reason that some host/guests might expect a âhome sharing PLUSâ experience. We have had gay men chose us as a coupleâs listing, because they felt that would lower the risk of sexual proposals. When I wasnât around my hubby has experienced awkward moments with a gay guest from that app.