I have set my Trip Length Minimum Stay to 4 nights, for EVERY night Sun-Sat.
However, I often get requests to stay for 2 or 3 days. What is going on?
Sometimes folks only need less days than your minimum, so they ask.
Theyāre sending requests because they canāt book. THEY SHOULDNāT BE ABLE TO REQUEST DAYS THAT ARENāT AVAILABLE. I just got a booking for tonight when guests just checked out and someone requested,
At least when it was elevated to the second level, he cancelled.
I just tried to do what youāre talking about as a ānon-hostā and itās not giving me the option to ask the host a question. It is telling Me thereās a 4 night minimum, and not allowing me to progress any further unless I state that I want to book for the 4 nights.
Iām actually asking the guest now via āmessageā to see if it didnāt tell him there was a four night minimum, or if he got around the issue somehow.
Guests typically will make a request for booking for some four night minimum for instance a month from now and then send a message saying āwe just put that in but we really only need Xā. Itās to your advantage to receive questions like this since you may be comfortable giving three out of four nights In that timeframe.
I believe it said āRequest to Stayā and gave me the option to Accept or Decline. I couldnāt replicate what he did when I went on as a traveler. I guess he did think he was quite special, but I had actually jacked up the nightly rates prior to his request, thinking that we may have used the condo that weekend. So our payout was the same as if heād booked 4 nights at the regular rates. Also, he said heās getting in at 2:30 in the morning, so it actually is only a 2 night rental for a 3 night price.
I messaged him and he said he wasnāt sure how he did it, but it DID tell him 4 night minimum.
Are you folks saying that the dates the guests entered on a Booking Request contravened your settings, or that they asked in their message for that? Because as far as Iām aware, dates that are not available to be booked cannot be entered on a request.
If they are just asking if youāll accept a shorter booking, guests can ask you to provide caviar for their emotional support puppy if they want to.
Even though my max is 7 nights, I had someone ask about a monthly rate. Gave her the reasons why it was a no.
The way they asked was a request that I could accept or deny their request. After we texted back and forth regarding some questions I had, I hit approve, and a 3 night stay was approved.
Inquiries give the options to Pre-approve (not Accept) or Decline. Not trying to be pedantic, but some newer hosts or those used to getting IB bookings donāt understand the difference in the way an Inquiry and a Request are handled. If it says Pre-approve, itās an Inquiry, and yes, it only requires a message back to the inquirer, which Airbnb conveniently neglects to mention.
It was a 3 day that didnāt meet my minimum request that I ended up accepting. At least he told me he was aware there was a 4 day minimum but thought heād ask. At least now I know that the potential guest knows the minimum nights policy so when I tell them no, they arenāt surprised.
Weāll I hit accept and it booked. It didnāt preapprove.
Quite true, and thatās always been evident to me, but Iāve been surprised by the number of new hosts who seem not to notice that, or say they received a sketchy Request and donāt know whether to pre-approve it or decline. 
There is a setting under booking settings/calendar/trip length that asks to manually approve requests that are outside of your booking range. It probably defaults to yes when you set up your listing these days. I would check there and see what is selected.
@DozerPug I just spent 20 minutes trying to find such a setting without success. I looked at all the settings for the listing. Where is it?
@NordlingHouse Hereās a screenshot showing it. Hope this helps.
Edit: This setting is only available with IB as you are reviewing everything with request to book.
Thereās only a setting for longer stays, but not one for same day booking (which I donāt allow, but this system glitch did) or for stays shorter than 2 nights. I donāt want them to be able to request booking for either.
As I have said many times, they need to fire their entire software development team and get someone competent.
