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I am at a loss why you do not simply HAVE these one-time-purchase things - they would get you a booking and inquirys would stop for people who want a specific coffee maker or a desk. A one time cost ($25 for a white noise machine for example) and the list grows smaller.
We look at any interaction with a potential guest as an opportunity - in these cases, letting us know what is missing or is needed. And some are simply things you could have as saved messages: “We do not have a washer and dryer on site, but there is a laundromat located at xxxx, about 10 minutes away”. Giving a guest information is what we in the business of hospitality call “hospitality”.
Even things you cannot acommodate you can turn into a positive interaction - “Sorry, we can only host x amount of guests. Hope to see you in the future with a party of xxx or less”. Cost of being gracious and, candidly, an adult, $0.00.
I agree with the other hosts who have tried to help you and your constant deflections and evasive responses are not endearing you to the people who are your best resource.
There are some things a host may be unable to provide, like hi-speed Wifi. I only had the option of cell-based Wifi, which was metered and quite expensive, until quite recently, and I have now upgraded. It still isn’t lightning speed, as I’m sure many people are accustomed to, but at least it’s faster and unlimited. But I was very clear in my ad about the limited Wifi so I never had any guests complaining about it.
I also wouldn’t purchase a white noise machine, as there is no space for anything else in the guest room, and have never had any guest ask about one. I do provide earplugs for those who require silence when they sleep, but it’s pretty quiet at my place normally, anyway. Crickets and frogs mainly.
But something like a desk and a chair seem awfully basic.
And I don’t get guests who inquire about things like what type of coffee maker I have. They’ve all been quite happy with the French press and selection of teas. I wonder why some hosts get so many guests who inquire about stuff like this when other hosts never do.
I bought a like-new Keurig even though I hate them because I got a lot of inquiries. $60 and I got the single Keurig with 80 pods of coffee and the 4 drawer pod storage. FB Marketplace FTW.
A point the OP seems to have an issue with. That the business is hands on hospitality.