Oh lord. Start at the start.
Guests: Lovely young couple, brought us pounds of chocolate from England, great rapport before and the first couple of days.
Didn’t see them the last 2 days, but that often happens, i didn’t worry. I left a vase of fresh flowers outside their door I liked them so much. Flowers, people.
As they were checking out, I did the “hope you had a lovely stay” and they said, awkwardly, Well there was one thing… money “went missing” from their room.
Well I think all the blood drained from my face. What a punch to the gut.
They kept suggesting maybe it was some other guests - but while originally there were going to be other guests overlapping they changed their plans. The only people upstairs/ on the same floor as their room were me, husband, kids and my husband’s parents. And my in-laws are pillars of the community like the rock of Gibraltar is a small stone.
We checked the sheets, looked behind the dresser. Nada.
First I took 15% off their stay ($45), they said “nice gesture but” so i asked how much was missing and they weren’t sure but guessed it was about 125. Fine. I refunded them $100 because I hate this awful feeling.
They thought we went into their room, opened her makeup bag, and stole money. Fuck.
So they wrote back thanking me (that’s when they asked if they could update their review of us. I hadn’t even realized they’d reviewed us, I’d been so upset. I told them to call customer service)…
I am still feeling ill about it, but I’m not sure what to do in regards to my review of them. They were perfectly lovely guests right up until they assumed me and my family were (hosting) thieves.
(Personally, I think they either accidentally spent it- it’s an expensive town- or stashed it elsewhere or dropped it or something… but they got home and unpacked their bags and reiterated it was not there)
Options:
Say they were lovely guests, recommend as long as they have access to a room safe
Say they were lovely guests but I’m scarred for life, can’t recommend
Don’t review at all
Other, hopefully involving Greek chocolate with hazelnuts and my belly
… I’ve already got a note in my house rules that they’re not to do illegal things and I’m not liable if they do. Do I need to add that valuables are their responsibility and should be kept with them at all times? The bedroom door only has a hook and eye key on the inside - for privacy, not security - and I don’t want to add a lock to the outside. Either they have the only key and I can get locked out of my property if they lose it, or I’ve got a copy and we’re back at accusing me of thievery if anything goes missing.
This is the closest I’ve come to closing my listing in 4.5 years.
Help?
(Please no judging or "You should have"s. They don’t help. My in-laws don’t think i should have sent them any money at all, as that admits guilt, but that was a decision my husband and i made and it makes the pit in my stomach feel slightly better so I’m sticking with it)