Guests not following rules!

Wow!! That would have been amazing. I hear the Wildlife is fantastic there. May I ask what you were doing out there?

I was a government contract Technical Writer for the Ronald Reagan Missile Test Range, where we have the world’s largest, most powerful radar among other things. My island (Kwajalein) was 3 miles long and half a mile wide.

Our island didn’t have much wildlife – no land mammals, coconut crabs, geckos all over, half a dozen species of native birds and a few transients. All the neat wildlife was the incredible diversity in our 1200 square mile lagoon not more than 200 ft deep. Visibility was normally 75-100 ft!!

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[Found out my answer.]

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Duvets/top sheets
Kettles/er … no kettles
tomaytoes/tomartoes

Shoes on/shoes off … of course it’s your house and therefore your rules, but please don’t assume it’s “rude and disrespectful” if people don’t automatically take their shoes off when entering your hallowed abode. In Spain and Italy we have tiled, hard floors and it’s not the custom at all for guests to remove shoes - in fact I wouldn’t dare ask an elegantly-dressed Señora to remove a carefully-chosen part of her outfit!

It’s interesting to see which countries are on which side in the shoes on/off divide: China and Japan yes; Arab world yes, on the whole at home but hospitality would probably win out and I don’t think a guest would be required to do so. Scandinavian countries and Canada (i.e. cold, snowy countries) absolutely yes, Southern Europe no, UK and US mixed, up to the individual home owner.

Any advance on these?

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One of my rules is for people to park in my curved driveway in front of my house, not in the street and not blocking the garage. It’s the prime parking spot with the shortest walk to their door. It’s a rule, as well as driveway parking mentioned as a benefit several places in the listing. Still, people park in the street, across the street, down the street (?!) and in front of the garage about 40% of the time. People have advised signs or even painting my driveway but I want my home to look like a home, not a commercial enterprise.

This is what I’ve found to be most effective: putting it in the message with the check in information on the day of arrival sent between noon and 3 pm. So I tell them where to park, I generally remind them we are in the Mountain Time Zone and I tell them how to get in the room. That all of that is in the listing is irrelevant to a number of guests.

I bet you know some people who lived there also and later built a house here in Kona with the money they saved from being exempt from paying taxes. I profiled their home for our home magazine. She taught herself sewing and he taught himself cabinet making because of the lack of things to do…know who I mean? I should pM you the article. :blush:

India traditionally goes for shoes off, I think. But we personally don’t do the shoe off thing. I’m told it’s for hygiene purposes, but personally I doubt it makes a significant difference. Does anyone disagree?

I don’t voluntarily do the shoe off thing either. It brings to mind the memory of having to remove our shoes before entering a beautiful ancient mosque in Cairo. I looked at the hundred or so assorted footwear at the entrance and wondered if I would ever see mine again.

We entered the huge open-air prayer area quietly and respectfully, staying on the perimeter of the hundreds of fringed prayer rugs neatly covering every inch of the floor. They were of various colors and patterns but looked worn and faded.

What struck me the most, more than the unique architecture, detailed mosaic art, and the quiet and peaceful atmosphere, was the unexpected smell of unwashed feet. Apparently, the rugs were permeated with it even in that arid and dusty environment. Ugh…not very hygienic.

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A possible approach in such a situation is to tie the shoes together by their laces and hang them around your neck. But for some reason this isn’t a popular option.

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I hang one slip on shoe on each ear. Also not a popular option. :woman_shrugging:

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@faheem and @KKC

I so love it when hosts can help each other! …:stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: . :two_hearts:

Around the neck or over the ears, it is!

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New travelling product - scarf with smell proof shoe pockets, just the things for indoor shoe phobic hosts and no shoes temples!

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Wow that sounds amazing.

Yes. Points of view differ. I have issues with my feet and cannot go barefoot, no matter how hallowed a person feels their home is.

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Are you able to walk around in socks or slippers? @reader99

Do you mean reader99 should take slippers wherever they go? I’m assuming socks aren’t a solution, if Reader99 wears a nice pair of shoes somewhere.

I’ve had problems with mine as well. I’m okay right now but between plantar faciitis and heel spurs it can be excruciating to go barefoot. Socks don’t help and slippers are bulky. But most times I can live. My airbnb rental required we leave our shoes outside on the front porch. I wonder if he had a camera out there monitoring complicance? :rofl:

In New Zealand and Australia people generally leave their shoes on when visiting other houses, but if the carpet looks “nice” then they ask their hosts. Or if there are shoes outside the front door we usually follow suit.
When home we usually take our shoes off and put our slippers on straight away to signify the end of the working day.

Erhm no ? I’m a New Zealander and I wouldn’t dream of keeping my shoes on. I would go to take them off and if the host says thats ok you can keep them on then that’s fine but otherwise off they come. I’ve never been to family, friends or even friends of friends and kept my shoes on, carpet or no carpet.

I think more then anything it’s a cultural thing. If it’s a host rule to take your shoes off then off them come, it’s no different from any other rule they may have.

@reader99 Me too!!! Me too! Orthodics are required for me. I cleaned house yesterday without proper foot support. Today I am miserable. Barefoot is not an option for me.

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