An honest review versus a “good” review? Here’s a short guide

If you are one of the daily visitors to this forum who is wondering about giving a good review versus an honest review……

  1. Compromises honesty: You’re not providing a truthful account, which can mislead other hosts or guests.
  2. Enables bad behavior: Positive reviews for problematic guests encourage their poor conduct in future stays.
  3. Damages credibility: Future reviews from you may be taken less seriously by others if your reviews seem inflated.
  4. Unfair to good guests: Guests who truly deserve positive reviews may not stand out as much if everyone is rated the same.
  5. Reduces your control: Once you’ve left a review, you can’t change it, even if the guest doesn’t reciprocate as you hoped.
  6. Skews the platform’s reliability: Airbnb relies on accurate reviews to ensure trust within the community.
  7. Misjudges the guest’s intentions: A bad guest might still leave a poor review despite your good one, making your compromise futile.
  8. Hurts future hosts: Other hosts may accept problematic guests based on your falsely positive review.
  9. Unnecessary stress: If a guest has been difficult, rewarding them with a good review adds frustration rather than closure.
  10. Undermines your standards: You’re lowering your expectations for future stays by not holding guests accountable.
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I just recently gave a lower review. It was a bit hard but they honestly did not deserve a better one. This is probably the first time i’ve had to do that. Honesty is the best and if I gave them the same great review as the majority of my guests then I think it lowers my standards of what is acceptable.

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Did you write that yourself? It looks like something you’d get from AI.

Here’s what ChatGPT gave me for a similar question:


Here are 10 reasons why you should give an honest review for an Airbnb guest rather than just a good one:

  1. Trust and transparency: Honest reviews create a trustworthy and transparent system, benefiting both hosts and guests.
  2. Help other hosts: Your honest feedback helps other hosts make informed decisions when accepting guests, avoiding potential issues.
  3. Encouraging guest improvement: Constructive criticism in your review allows guests to learn from their mistakes and improve for future stays.
  4. Reflecting the guest’s true behavior: An honest review accurately reflects the guest’s behavior, helping set realistic expectations for other hosts.
  5. Setting a standard for the community: Honest reviews promote fairness within the Airbnb community, ensuring everyone abides by the platform’s expectations.
  6. Avoiding future problems: A truthful review can prevent other hosts from dealing with potentially problematic guests.
  7. Fair reputation system: By giving an honest review, you contribute to a fair reputation system, ensuring that guests earn their ratings based on actual experiences.
  8. Maintaining credibility: Being honest protects your credibility as a host. If guests consistently behave poorly and you leave glowing reviews, it could backfire on you or others later.
  9. Supporting the Airbnb review system: The review system is only useful if reviews are accurate and honest. This ensures the platform continues to function effectively.
  10. Avoiding bias: A good but inaccurate review might favor one guest over another unfairly, distorting the experiences of future hosts who rely on honest reviews.

An honest review strengthens the overall Airbnb experience for everyone involved.

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This “10 reasons” is awesome!

I just hope that when people search for the answer to their question “ I always try to be nice; do I give an honest accurate review or do I just give a generic or uncommitted good review” they get a reply like this from Google, chat, etc.

There are far too many people who think that they’re being caring when they decline to give a review that is accurate.

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