There’s a recent post on this subject.
My experience has been good with the two hosts I’ve hosted, however your situation, with the guest making demands before arriving, sounds problematic, and if I had a way out, I’d suggest she book elsewhere.
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There’s a recent post on this subject.
My experience has been good with the two hosts I’ve hosted, however your situation, with the guest making demands before arriving, sounds problematic, and if I had a way out, I’d suggest she book elsewhere.