Thank you so much Violetta. I was about to check out of the forum, due to a lack of support from the forum moderator and owner Tom, who seems to have no problem with things becoming destructive, and hosts giving unrealistic or misleading information. I truly do care about other hosts and guests knowing that although there can be good experiences, as a decently long term (3 years) highly rated superhost (for whatever that means), I came into it explaining away all the risks to my very tentative husband, only to realize how incredibly naive I had been after being burned repeatedly.
Yes, weāve met nice people, especially in the beginning, but this past year in particular, we have had negative experiences that have left us quite traumatized and feeling very taken advantage of. We have been blackmailed, and had our only negative review of the traumatizing incident removed - airbnb doesnāt want the really bad stories being told. We have had disasters of all kinds, from people who seemed totally legitimate and trustworthy. We are neither dumb or lacking the skills to be careful about who we have allowed into our home. Unfortunately however, when the crap hits the fan - and I assure you over time it will, airbnb will not always be there to back you up. Airbnb cares about airbnb - they think there will always be more hosts, and more guests, and with their huge company attracting more people by the day, they are right. But in this being the case, all kinds of people, including those that are unscrupulous, unprofessional and worst of all criminal are a part of the system, and you donāt have a way of knowing who these people are, until you are smack bag in the middle of it. And you donāt have to rely on my word to see how airbnb will manage the situation then. Please continue to the links below.
It is now very well documented that the review process doesnāt work. People have studied why: it comes down to people feeling too uncomfortable about leaving bad reviews for people they have met face to face, so they leave either all five stars, or just donāt review. So you donāt know if the place with all five stars is really that great, or if half of the guests just didnāt review.
Please look at all the experiences people are discussing online: and these are just the tip of the iceberg, because most wonāt sign up to share their bad experience (including myself - I thought about it but hate giving my email out everywhere).
Here is a Boston university paper that explores the issue:
http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2554500
One of the numerous articles:
Please check the trusted review sites for airbnb. You will see the trust is very very low indeed. This is where you will see what can happen. I am just one of the many that after years of hoping each bad incident would be a one off, have realized that there are real and true dangers associated with hosting or being a guest on airbnb.
https://www.trustpilot.com/review/www.airbnb.com
Also, an article I finally did write giving details of my experience - although not all the gory details. http://bedmaybebreakfast.com/xfa-blog-entry/diary-of-a-burned-out-airbnb-host.4/