Hahaahhhh. The best thing I ever did was ask for a divorce. He couldn’t wait to get official with the new squeeze (although she is still married, we discovered from snooping on the judiciary site here… we found that along with an eviction that went all the way to a writ of possession and sheriff lockout, and some TROs… juicy stuf! 
) It’s just a shame he abandoned his kids entirely. We call him the nonfather. We amuse our selves with answering any reference to him with one word “WHO???” (I saw daddy driving today, and the others answer WHO?? who is that? Hahahahaha) really he gave up his rights to fatherhood when he left them six years ago and hasn’t spoken to them since, didn’t attend their high school, and now college graduations or see them off to college or send them one thin dime or anything…
But I digress again! 
. Yippee for the environment