Reminder - it is GUESTS who do the things that are found by the next guest - dirty stuff in drawers, unclean dishes in stacks, etc. It is up to the host to figure out a way to mitigate the guests’ poor actions. For example, if dirty utensils are something that guests leave, then provide 100% cleaning. I have hundreds of plastic utensils I was given years ago from a friend - I leave those out so I do not have a cleaning situation. Of course, I do not recommend buying plastic ,but that is MY solution.
As always, if guests bring up an issue, it does not make THEM bad guests - it reflects on the previous guest, of course - but if a host fails to figure out a solution for the future then it is 100% on the host. One host here actually said they have no solution to guests finding dirty dishes in a stack, and complained that they were called out on it. Not fair to blame the victim…