Re: guests who want an early checkin
The reason they do it is: as a guest, you are only thinking of what suits you. You have in mind that AirBnB is not a rigid hotel, it’s flexible. So why shouldn’t you ask? You don’t ask, you don’t get, right?
I am a self-check-in property - something I do not tell guests until one week before arrival (very important - I am heading off the “unobserved party venue” crowd and also the “I can invite clients into the property for an hour of horizontal mambo” crowd so they need to be of the assumption I’ll be nearby, at the time they make the booking).
I deal with early requests quite strictly in one of two ways. If they simply state, unprovoked, that they will be arriving at 11am (etc), I just note that check-in is from 3pm or later, but that the very close-by locker service is great for storing luggage and has worked well for previous guests.
If I am actually asking their arrival time because they haven’t supplied it, and they try the 11am thing, I’ll just state that in that case, sorry, check-in will need to be 3pm as I have to schedule the cleaning around my work and family commitments that day. Then the locker info, etc.
I have never had a guest argue the point or complain in reply to these.
And also this. Go through and take out anything you can. If it doesn’t need to be in the listing, take it out. If you can say it in fewer words, do so. Actively see if you can make it shorter without losing the important parts. And if it is a general non-difficult house rule (like no shoes inside, or, take out the garbage as you leave) it shouldn’t be in your main listing at all. These are not hardships for a guest to suddenly discover once they book and read your house rules.
Communicate as much as you can with the photographs. This includes your dogs, your stairs, the bed combinations, the fact you have a bathtub, a picture of the bus stop nearby, the local tourist attractions, anything which can save you a few words in the listing.
People are reading on mobile phones and even 3-4 paragraphs becomes a huge wall of text that they simply won’t read.